The short version...
I was born in Christchurch, New Zealand in 1965. I have an older sister, 2 older half sisters and 2 younger brothers.
I grew up in and around Blenheim, Marlborough. When we first moved from Christchurch, we lived in Woodbourne on the Air Force base and went to Renwick Primary School. When I was 11, we moved to Springlands in Blenheim and attended St Mary's Primary school. I attended Marlborough Girls College, leaving during my 7th form year. My parents bought a house in Grovetown- a rural community a few minutes out of Blenheim.
When I left school, I was unemployed for some time, before getting a job spraying noxious weeds for the Marlborough County Council. I did this for 2 six month stints and then went on to Salmon farming for the next 5 years. I started on a Salmon farm in Crail Bay,Pelorus Sound and ended in Port Underwood, Cloudy Bay.After leaving the salmon farming, I gave birth to a son in 1990 and a daughter in 1994. I spent the next 14 years living on a government benefit, which allowed me to be a stay-at-home mother to my kids.
I took a course in computing through Te Wananga O Aotearoa which led to a voluntary job assisting the Te Atiawa Trust with their Waitangi Tribunal claim.
I lived in Picton for 10 years and then moved to Lower Hutt, taking with me only what I could fit in my car at the time. I have been back once for a few other boxes of personal effects and a second time to retrieve my lawn mower.
I began working at boarding kennels, where I have worked since Oct 2004. I met my partner in 2006 and we bought a house together, in Stokes Valley, in 2009.
I have a son born in 1990 and a daughter born in 1994. Their father was a friend with whom I shared a house periodically while living in Picton. They are of Te Atiawa/Ngai Tahu descent.
My jobs
Click on the links below to see photos and read about the jobs I have had
I worked for the Marlborough County Council spraying a noxious weed "Ragwort" in both Koromiko and Rai Valley. Follow the link for some photos and some memories from this job
I spent almost 2 years working on a salmon farm in Crail Bay. Follow the link for some photos and some memories from this job
I spent a further 3 years working on a salmon farm in Port Underwood. Follow the link for some photos and some memories from this job
Some of my "Journeys"
Life is a constant journey filled with challenges. Here I talk about some of mine.
Sexuality
A journey of self discovery, trying to find my place on the gender spectrum
Abuse
I am a survivor of emotional and sexual abuse. A hard one to talk about but I do anyway
weight loss
I managed to lose 35 kilos on my own. I share my journey with you here.
Breast Reduction
Having large breasts gave a dimension to my life many would never have considered